Our strength is also a crown of thorns.
And the results have been catastrophic.
All the helping we do for others is actually destroying us. We are hurting ourselves mentally, physically and and emotionally. The weight of our shame and guilt has kept us bound for too long.
But that was then. This is now!
It's time to be free. It's time to learn to fill our own cup and drink from it first before we offer any to anyone.
It's time to be happy. Like over the moon, jump up and down, OMFG I'm so full...happy.
It's time to be pleased and supported and uplifted and, well let me just put it plain..worshiped.
You deserve to be treated like a straight up Goddess. Somebody, somewhere needs to be drinking your bath water out of a champagne glass.
There's only one problem.
You've forgotten all of these things.
You only remember the pain. You only remember how unloved you were by people who should have loved you.
You remember the mistakes you made and because of that, you constantly remind yourself of the price you must continue to pay.
You decided that you need to be punished and just like the good little girl that you are you're going to carry out that punishment until...
Until when exactly?
How long are you going to punish yourself?
How long are you going to allow others heap and toss their ideas of who you should be and how you should show up on the world on to your back?
How much longer are you going to take it?
How much longer can you take it?
Aren't you tired of it yet?
Aren't you tired of giving and giving and giving and giving?
Aren't you tired of being afraid to ask for just an ounce of it back?
Aren't you tired of being afraid to show up in all my brilliance and beauty because someone will feel that I'm being or doing too much?
Aren't you tired of turning to the same people for support and acceptance only to be denied, again?
Aren't you tired of putting all your dreams and desires on hold all in the name of responsibility?
I love you sis, but I'm tired of it for you. I'm so tired of you not getting what you really deserve in life. I'm exhausted at watching you go through life unfulfilled and frustrated when I know that there is so much joy and passion for you in this world.
It's time to ask for more.
I am obsessed with helping women of color remember how worthy of love, support and absolute worship you are...no matter what has happened to you or what you've been through.
I am over the moon, crazy about showing my sisters how to create a habit of self-love that turns their life into a dream come true
I am totally committed to teaching you how to ask for EVERYTHING you want and expect to get it.
This is why I created this baby here.